Wednesday, November 27, 2013

Synchronicity. Jewish Voice For Peace. Channelling Life Purpose/ Soul Purpose

       Very interesting synchronicity

  Back in 199I channeled much fascinating information.
I had access to what's called the "Akashic Records". This is the record of everything that's ever happened/will happen and everyone who's ever lived/will be born.  I was able to ask whatever I wanted and get the answer.  There are many things I will never tell publicly as they are sacred to me and may draw negative energy/responses
/ nay-sayers. "Don't throw pearls before swine" as they say! 
  One of the things I asked was to know my life purpose, or soul purpose. I will tell part of the answer here, because I  think you will find it interesting, especially if you've experienced synchronicities in your own life. One of the reasons I'm here, I was told, is to work toward world peace. When I was told this, it rang true and  it moved me to tears. Peace/ anti-war is a subject close to my heart.
  I was told that this soul purpose was somehow connected to the Jewish people/race. This rang true/felt right also as I had always felt a kinship with Jews ( though as far as I know I have no Jewish in me. I'm Irish, Italian, German and English)
  Ive never been able to recall the details/what the connection was between Jews and world peace. I was not "allowed" to write anything down during or after this channeling session. In fact, I was made to forget for years. I was told I would remember as I needed to/when I was ready to.
  So I have recalled bits and pieces over the years. Many details came to the surface in November 02 (or 03?) when 7 planets lined up in Taurus (my sun sign)
   Then, more recently, onTuesday Nov 26 2013 , I was driving w/a friend through the city of Albuquerque. There was a billboard calling for people to encourage government to spend money helping people in Albuquerque instead of giving money to Israel for the purpose of occupying Palestine. At the bottom of the billboard it said "" or" and "Jewish Voices for Peace."
  It didn't dawn on me that this was a sign, literally, (ha! a billboard) until today, when I got an email from, guess who?! It wasn't the Albuquerque chapter, but the national one I suppose. They were talking about peace, etc and asking for a small donation to help their cause. I was not on their email list so its a mystery how they found me/emailed me.
  I take this as a major sign that I am to get involved in this organization and I KNOW its time for me to move into this part of my destiny.
LOVE to all people, all countries, all of God's children!
  Please share your own stories of synchronicity, signs, soul purpose and any others you think my readers would find interesting or inspiring.
Please, no political debates! We all have our path to walk. Judge not.


Friday, November 22, 2013

Sylvia Browne Famous Medium Death

 Sylvia Browne died in the hospital. She wasnt looking healthy for a long time and had mentioned health issues on live tv, so this news is not surprising. Its unfortunate that she died at 77 , especially since she thought she had more time; she had predicted her own death to be at 88 yrs old. Condolences to her son Chris Dusfresne and the rest of her family.
 Friends of mine had tickets to a show coming up where they would have seen her live. Im sure many who had readings scheduled are as upset as my friend is.
 For those of you who wanted to have a reading with her, Im sorry, but there IS another option.
I know a great  natural-born medium. She keeps a low profile, does not want fame & charges a very fair price. She will only read occasionally if i recommend someone to her. I do Tarot Readings but if you want specifically a mediumship reading, I will hook you up w/her. Go to my website and contact me from there if you need an honest and accurate medium. 

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

UFO Sightings happening in Albuquerque New Mexico

UFO sightings are so common here  in NM that few people question it. I lived in Taos for about a year. A man who lived "on the mesa" (out in the desert outside of town). He said "We see them all the time out there." There's another man in Taos  who's considered a local expert. He's been collecting data and personal accounts for decades. According to him, the only "good guy" aliens are the ones in spherical ships. If you see the disc, cigar or triangle one, run. The cigar shaped ships are the ones that have been seen in the Albuquerque area lately. Here is a link to a site where people are posting about it.

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Mercury retrograde = messages from the past

  Are you hoping to hear from someone from your past?  Dont be surprised if it happens between now and Nov 10th. When the planet Mercury is retrograde (appears to be moving back-ward), it can re-start communications. The danger is, however, that it also tends to make communication more difficult. Think before speaking; how will this be taken by the other person. Be very clear. I always recommend, but especially during a retro mercury, avoid text, email and letters for important conversations. Lovers, exes, friends youve had a falling out with, etc; these situations/relationships are especially touchy. CALL or meet in person. 
  Mercury retro also tends to bring mechanical , electronic glitches/breakdowns, travel hassles and its NOT a good time to sign anything. Wait on committing to anything and if you cant, have a lawyer look it over!
  Personally, Mercury retro this month brought some of my regulars back around for another reading, a few of them I hadnt heard from in a few months.
   Feel free to share your mercury retro experiences here. Got glitches?

Thursday, May 9, 2013

Cleveland Kidnapping Suspect, Ariel Castro- a psychic reading on it

I asked my guides/the cards to tell me more about this person and also about the upcoming trial
I generally use 3-card spreads and did so for this reading.
Card 1- 5 of Wands- unsatisfied desires, struggle, conflict, obstacles, competition, aggression
Card 2- The Sun- satisfaction, accomplishment, joy, love, pleasure
Card 3- 5 of Swords- defeat, destruction of others, adversaries, infamy, dishonor
Interpretation- Card 1  is about his past, including possibly childhood. It speaks of a person who was unable to get his needs met. He sees the world as a place of struggle; a place where you must compete and be aggressive to get what you want.(And as we've seen,  he has this violence/aggression in him & is willing to use it)
Card 2- he found a way to get his needs met and sees it as a great accomplishment. The interactions he had (forced upon these women)  brought him happiness and pleasure. Because of his short-comings/emotional issues, negative beliefs about the world, this was probably the only way for him  to get what he needed. ( the welfare of his victims was not a concern for him, obviously)
Card 3- this card makes it clear that he WILL be convicted, dishonored and infamous
   I have very strong feelings about rape, as most of us do, but i try to be unbiased in my readings.
 But I must add- feminism is not a four-letter word and rape is not sex; rape is violence.

Thursday, April 18, 2013

Boston Bombing - a psychic reading on it (who, why etc)

1) I asked who did it.
Got Page of Cups card.
This suggests it was carried by someone who  did it as a service to another. He is loyal to an individual or a cause.
2) Motive of the mastermind (according to 1st card, this would be a different individual. We already know motive of the one who carried it out)
Two of Wands- dominant personality, attainment of goals, ruler, bold, melancholy in the midst of worldly riches
This is someone who is wealthy and in a leadership position who wants more power. Wealth is not enough for him.
This answer doesn't surprise me, as my first intuition when I heard about the bombing was that we will never know the whole story.

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Spirit Visitation- " She touched my arm ! "

 My close friend died last March. She's been coming to friends and family- visually and auditorily.
Her name is Debbie. Another very close friend of her's called me this past weekend to tell me that she had visited him.
  He was watching tv w/his life partner. Suddenly, Debbie was standing next to him. She was in a white gown (funny cause she never wore dresses). She touched his arm, then left.
I knew immediately that the white gown meant she had "graduated". This is the word that came to mind/first thought I had, so I trust it was my intuition.
  He wondered why she didn't speak to him. I said "Who knows how much energy/focus it takes for them to even make themselves seen, no less FELT by us. Maybe talking would have taken more effort. Anyway, just seeing and feeling her was an amazing gift"
  I know Im traveling w/her (astral projection) & hope to be able to remember more when I wake/return. I look forward to an on-going relationship, channeling, etc w/her.
I hope everyone will receive the priceless gift I have; knowing that your loved one is still very "alive" and present in your life.
  I believe Debbie is an angel now, and was always destined to be. Every one who ever met her, loved her immediately and unconditionally for the rest of their lives.  We were happy to care for her when she was in a wheel chair at the end & I would have given my life for my friend, Debbie. Maybe we always knew; our lives were "touched by an angel"

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Angels Visiting

  A friend of mine has been visited by angels this past week, including last night when she stayed at my house. They wake her up and talk to her in the middle of the night. She cant remember what they said when she wakes up but told me they were covering her and things in her house with "shrouds".
  The obvious symbolism of this is that she's going to die, but I did a reading on it and it turns out they are visiting to help her with abundance. Interesting because that does happen to be her focus at the moment.
 The shrouding when they visit is simply to protect her and her stuff & I presume the new product idea she's working on.
  For whatever reason, she's very close to/open to them right now.
Moral of the story- dont assume, always check it out with the cards before jumping to conclusions.
                                        Angelic blessings to you!

Monday, February 4, 2013

Astral Projection / Spirit visitation/ Multi-dimensionality

  My friend Debbie died in March 2011. She makes herself known- showing up visually for her sister, saying "happy birthday mom" to her mom, coming to us in dreams, etc.
In one example, she came to her mom in  a dream and said "Ask Aleta(me) if she wants to go to Africa with me"  Her mom was confused, thinking "but youre dead" Debbie seemed to hear her and said "I can still go ! Just ask her for me"  Her mom said "Ok but how can she go? Its very expensive"  Debbie said, "Arc will pay for it"
  Her mom told me this on the phone a few days later. I said "Yes, I will go to Africa" aloud, confident it was heard by whomever needed to hear it. Her mom hadn t googled arc yet, so I did.  She said it was A.R.C. I found an organization called "African Relief something (committee?). I knew right away that was the one. I have always felt a strong connection to people of color, and have always been interested in volunteer work. Also, their next trip was to Rwanda, which is where the mountain forest gorrillas are. I have a special connection with, and a great love for animals. Africa was also one of the places we both wanted to see.
  Though I have no conscious memory of it, I trust that I have visited there with her, during my sleep, via astral projection.
  I have always believed that we are multi-dimensional beings, living parallel lives, etc. I have learned from this dream that organizations, and probably companies, groups and countries are multi-dimensional also.
ARC "paid" for my trip, in some sense.
  Our intentions have power. Because it was my intention to help people, to see Africa, to see the gorillas and to one day travel with my friend, I have.
  Know and believe that you too are multi-dimensional, astral projecting, travelling and spending time with loved ones that have passed. Ask to be made aware and you will be.
                      READERS- please share your thoughts and experiences on these subjects.

Afterlife / Mediumship / Death of best friend

 My mom is a medium. (psychic ability tends to run in families).She could be as famous as Sylvia Brown but doesnt like attention so she keeps a low profile. 
  Last March (2011) my best friend died. She was only 46 and like a sister to me.
For many weeks before, whenever I tried to write her name (Deb), I would write "Ded". I would get upset and hoped it wasnt a sign, but I knew.
 The day before she died, I called my mom from the hospital so she could speak to her. I told my mom, "it may be the last time". When I got back on the phone, she said "I told her to visit me and she knew what I meant" (she meant, visit me in spirit)
  The moment my friend died, she went to my mom.  
She was healthy, ecstatic, holding my cats, one who had died 3 wks before.
She said, "Tell Aleta I love her and Im taking care of her cats". My mom was able to describe her grandparents and their dog, who were standing by.  She stayed awhile then my mom said, "youve been here a long time, you can go now if you want. Im ok" She walked into a tunnel made of light.
  My mom called right away and said "I know Debbie died. She already came to me." I was very moved by this and cried as she told me the details of the visitation. I have grieved very little because I am so happy for her. She makes herself known often, to everyone who loves her.
  Remember this and may it bring you peace- your loved ones, even pets are around you and you WILL see them again.

Relationship Break-up. Focus on YOU

What is he feeling? What is he thinking?  Is he seeing anyone else? Will he call me?
All valid questions, and I'm happy to answer them for you.  But consider also, what about YOU?
Ok, so what if your guides (thru the cards) say he is missing you, thinking of calling and proabaly will call?
Then what? What should YOU do?
Well, that depends.
Unless you are sure the relationship was good for you,  and will continue to be, the next thing to ask your spirit guides would be, " how will being with him affect me? how will I feel in my relationship with him?"
  Its easy, when we're heart-broken, lost, lonely or feeling rejected to obsess about the other person and to do anything to get them back, but be careful what you wish for.
 Is he good for you? Will you be happy with him?
One of the ways I help my clients is by suggesting the right questions.
Yes, I will answer all of your questions, but I will suggest ones you may not have thought of also.

Paranormal. Seeing Spirits and Scared

A woman contacted me through my website seeking advice /support. Her daughter sees spirits. Mom isnt sure whether to believe he, be afraid for her, etc. Here is my response/advice
First, always assume that your child is telling the truth about these things. Kids are very open and intuitive and its usually true. I, personally choose to believe her without even hearing the details or meeting her. Its always a choice, whether to believe someone. Its important especially for you, to believe and support her for a few reasons
1) its best for your relationship w/her (she feels respected, validated, supported and you are working as a team
2) it teaches her to trust what she sees/feels which is vital for the rest of her life
3) If any "bad" spirits come around, she will stronger. A person who is, or even feels alone, misunderstood, distant form loved ones is vulnerable.  
Its not that important to "get to the bottom of things" (to know exactly who the spirits are, etc)
The first & most important thing you need to do is not be afraid/not let her see that you are (if you are).
I would say something like this to her and any child experiencing this-
"I believe you. I know youre smart and not a liar. I know there is a spirit world because I know there is a God, angels and that we dont disappear when we die. Not everyone can see spirits. Its a special ability you have. Some people wouldnt believe you, or would be scared, or even jealous. You shouldnt tell anyone else if you dont trust them 100%. Most people will eventually tell your secrets. Some kids will make fun of you if they hear about this. 
You dont need to be afraid of the spirits because most spirits are good. There are some bad ones and you need to know that because if you know it, you will do what you need to do to protect yourself. I know a very strong angel who can protect you. His name is Michael. He was created by God to protect us. From now on, every morning and every night, we will ask him to protect us. We can look up prayers or we can make up our own, something like this (say aloud, with confidence)-
"Archangel Michael, I invoke you in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit (always invoke this way or u can get an imposter!) I ask for your protection from all harm, danger, evil, bad thoughts, feelings and actions of others, lies, confusion and anything and anyone that would harm me in any way. Protect also my family, my pets, all living beings in my house and on my property and also protect the helpful spirits around me, including ancestors. Protect us through all time, place and all dimensions. So be it and so it is in the name of the Holy Trinity." (this is one I have created/developed and use daily for me and my clients)
  Tell her to do this daily even 2 x day. ALSO, an easy to remember and powerful thing to say if there is a sudden feeling of danger, anywhere, any time, say simply, aloud, "In the name of Jesus, Satan be gone". Anything evil/harmful MUST leave when you say this.
  You and she will feel stronger and have more faith over time from doing this. When she feels stronger and more confident, someday, she can ask these spirits if they need her help. (Is there a message they need to get to a loved one? etc) Your first instinct as a mom probably is that u want this to go away, because you want to protect her. But Michael will do that for you..
  The thing is, its a gift and it may be her life purpose to help these spirits. They were people once and are drawn to her because she can see them.  She can choose to close down this gift, ( which may or may not work) or she can embrace it, develop it. The benefit of that would be that she would also learn to control it. She can learn to set boundaries, for example, she could pray to God for this and also tell the spirits-
 "I will set aside a certain amount of time for the spirit world, but I do not want my sleep interrupted, or my daily life, such as school interrupted. If you respect this, I will respect you and we will have a mutually beneficial connection"
  Please search online for in-person support for this. There are others who have been down this road and can help you and her make the best of it/avoid danger. Search "" When you get there, find your city and put in site's search bar "spiritual groups" "new age groups" etc. Find ones that are free or cheap/by donation. If there are no free ones, email the group leader and tell them whats going on. See if they or anyone they know will  help you with advice, etc.
  I didnt notice your address in email form from my website, but I would like to talk to your daughter, at least on the phone, or better yet, meet you both in person somewhere. It would help her to meet someone whos had these experiences.  I have had many. I can also tell her about my mom, who is a medium, was once afraid and also thought she was crazy, but now helps people. Please email me again w/phone number if you want to talk or meet.  Put "seeing spirits- please call me" in subject line so i will notice it and open it.
Hope I helped, Aleta
Additional advice for my blog readers- if you need help w/this issue, beside, see also the free magazines in new-age, metaphysical shps and sometime health food stores. There are many free and cheap groups that can help you with these matters.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

How to avoid phony psychics / psychic scams

As an honest professional psychic, Im horrified by the stories I hear about psychic scammers. Im here to tell you that there ARE honest psychics and to help you avoid the phony ones.
   Apparently, not all of us have good intentions. Many so called psychics are in it only for the money. Some arent using their intuition at all, but instead, reading your body language, tone of voice, etc and making very general statements. When I was younger, I was scammed by a few of them myself.
1) Marketing. The psychic with the biggest ads is not necessarily the best psychic. Many of us are NOT business minded, NOT ambitious, NOT financially able to afford expensive ads. billboards, high rent offices.
Most healers and psychics I know, including myself, are not good at business, marketing, self-promotion, tech stuff like Facebook, Twitter, etc. We are busy meditating, doing readings, helping peopl,e and animals, doing art.
2) Convenience. The psychic w/the store-front office who accepts walk-in /no appointment required isnt necessarily the best psychic. Many of us work from our homes, by appointment. Many of us are busy doing many readings daily, or we dont do readings 24/7 and have other jobs or businesses.
HOW TO FIND/CHOOSE the best psychic for you-
1) Google, research, read reviews. Visit a few websites. Which psychic are you drawn to? Trust your intuition. You may also go to local new age shops or health food stores and ask if they can recommend someone. They may have in-house psychics  right there, or they may have business cards of people they recommend. Check these psychic out before you schedule though- ask for references or check online reviews.
2) Ask them questions before scheduling. How long have they been reading? What are their gifts (clairvoyant? tarot cards? medium?)  What is their reading style/philosophy? What can you expect from the reading? (what can they offer/not offer/ how can they help/not help? How long of a reading do you get for how much?
1) Speaks in general terms that he/she could say to anyone. Example- "youre a nice person but people take advantage of you"
2) Asks lots of questions/ tries to get you to talk. They may be trying to get info because they are not very intuitive/dont know how to read the cards. I personally insist that my clients do NOT give me ANY info. Many are dying to tell me their story/the history of their relationship, etc, but I dont allow it til AFTER I have shuffled, laid down and interpreted the cards, THEN they may tell me whats going on so we can go deeper and get  more info and so I can help them phrase the next question(s).
3) Tells you 100% what will happen or exactly when it will happen. The truth is that the future is NOT carved in stone, but that you CREATE it withyout thoughts, choices, actions and prayers. A psychic that tells you otherwise is either-
a) means well but is mis-informed
b) wanting you to be dependent on them/worship them as "all-knowing'all-seeing"
4) Is totally inaccurate. If nothing they say rings true to you, or is totally wrong, after a few minutes, ask to stop and not pay/get your money back. Give it about 5 minutes because it can take time to get "in tune " with eachother. If your questions are vague/they dont understand what youre trying to ask, try explaining and rephrasing the question. If you still feel like youre "not connecting" w/him/her, ask for your money back,
5) If he/she suggests that you are the victim of a curse, a spell , etc, LEAVE and DONT PAY. If theyre not cooperative, threaten to go to the cops. A con will get very nervous and hand your money over. If you feel threatened, leave, go to the cops and ask for a police escort to get your money back with their protection.
Please understand that I do readings with the best intentions. This is my soul work. I am here to help people. I take this work seriously and do it with comapassion and integrity. It is my belief that the majority of healers and psychics are like me, just beware the few "bad apples" God bless you and guide you to your best future.


How to get clear answers from your spirit guides

 During a reading with the Tarot Cards, your spirit guides, higher self and/or ancestors speak through the cards and I interpret. There are many ways to ask them a question.
Here's some advice you may find helpful before you get a reading
  1) Figure out what it is that you REALLY want to know.
Often, people call me and aren't sure about what they should ask. You may think things through a little before our appointment or I can help you figure it out as we go.
  Example of a typical relationship reading- I ask the client not to give me any info- the history of the relationship, nothing, just the first name of the person.
Client asks, "Whats going on in my relationship with_____?"  This is fine to start out with, as its vague/open enough for your spirit guides to speak freely and tell you things you may not have thought to ask.
Often, as the reading progresses, we will ask various questions, finally getting to the most pressing one, which may be "How does he feel about me?" or "Is he cheating?" or "Is it likely that we'll get married?"
  2) Be willing to hear the truth, trusting that your guides will only tell you what you can handle. The fact that you called me already suggests that you are ready to hear the truth. Please know that I pray before every reading that the information my client receives will be "for their highest good" meaning that only info that will be helpful will be revealed. For example, if someone you love is going to pass over, you would ONLY be told IF it would help you to know ahead. Some people want to know, some dont.  Also, the person who will be dying, on a soul level, may not want you to be there (it may make it to hard for them to leave) OR maybe they're hanging on til you go visit them. Your guides and their's know. Many things involve SOUL-level decisions. A card reading can help you get in touch with these soul choices, in ALL areas of your life.
  3) Understand that the future is not carved in stone, so that if you ask for 100% yes or no answers, or exact time-frames, understand that no honest psychic can guarantee anything in the future. I can honestly tell you where you/a relationship/ a career, etc is likely headed at the time of the reading.
Your spirit guides, the angelic kingdom, God, whatever you believe in, is there, hearing your wishes and prayers, influencing your life as you live it, day by day. Your thoughts, actions and choices also create your life and your future. If I said I could predict the future w/complete accuracy, I would be denying God's power and  also I'd be dis-empowering you. This would be false, arrogant and counter-productive.
 Whats more important, more honest and more helpful, is to show you what actions you need to take to get to where you want to go. Example- "Will me and John break up?"  I would suggest  that we re-phrase the question and ask your guides "What can I do to create happiness and harmony in my relationship and to ensure its longevity?" This shows your guides/the universe/God that you are willing to do what you need to and that you have faith in yourself and/or them to help you make it happen.
When you walk away from a reading, you should feel clear, informed, encouraged and empowered, knowing that you create your own life, your own future, with the help of Spirit/God,  you are a co-creator.

Abusive /neglectful relationships

How can you help yourself or another who is in a bad relationship? Here's an email to a client of mine (anonymous) with some suggestions, based on my experience as a professional psychic and phone counselor. The 1st few lines are personally for my client, the rest can be applied to anyone in a bad relationship or anyone with a friend or relative who's in such a relationship. Please share this advice with anyone who may be helped by it.
 "Hi, Yes i thought card 2, (the Queen of Swords) in the reading described both you & his wife. Both perceptive and intutive and both lonely. But patience you have; otherwise you wouldnt still be there, in love with a married man.I think when you say you're not patient, what you mean is you dont have a lot of tolerance for her lack of compassion for him.
  Be careful not to feel his anger for him. We've all done this for friends- (been angry for them when they are in an abusive/neglectful relationship). Its easy to get cast into the role of the one who feels their anger for them, so they dont have to feel it. It enables them to:
a) not confront the other person (telling you "I wanted to say ____", or "I should have walked out" etc, instead of saying these things to the one who is hurting them.
b) it helps them to avoid fully feeling their own feelings, which
c) allows them to stay in the relationship longer (avoid the stress involved in making changes)because youre carrying the burden of their negative emotions for them.
  So, however angry you feel, dont express it to him. Instead, ask, calmly, as a good counselor would-
 " How do you feel when she (treats you like that/says that/does that) " This helps him acknowledge & express his own feelings and at the same time shows him that you care how he feels and that you're allowing him to feel/figure things out for himself. This is very supportive and empowering.
  Some other things you can ask are: " What kind of relationship would you like to have, if you could have the ideal relationship?" "How would you like to be treated?" "How do you want to feel in your day to day life?" "Can you imagine having that?" "What do you think it would take to get that?"
Open-ended questions that help him focus on what he DOES want instead of how bad things are/what he DOESNT want- the essential rule of creating the life you want, as seen in many books on creative visualization, and movies such as The Secret. Get him thinking and talking about what he wants/could have, (without telling him that youre the answer to his prayers. We both know you are and so does he but dont say it! LOL) Your sincere concern and support during these conversations will show him/remind him.
  At times when you cant talk to him, just imagine these conversations in your mind, especially when you go to bed at night. Your love and support WILL be felt on some level and will help him. Then ask to meet with him while you are sleeping and to be guided in what to say/how to help him. Most of us are leaving our bodies during the night (astral projection). You may as well program yourself/choose where you're going and who you will meet up with. Hope this helps, Aleta"
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Married man / Bi polar

Are you in love w/a married man? Are you married to a moody/bi-polar/Dr Jekyl/Mr Hyde? Below is an email to a client of mine whom I had given a reading to. She's married to a moody guy and in love w/a married man. You may find it helpful. Hi,(anonymous) Yes, bi-polar/moody/Dr Jekyl/ Mr Hyde people are difficult to be involved with. A painful situation and all too common. You stay for those moments of happiness, the high points. We can actually become addicted to the highs AND lows. The brain gets used to feeling certain emotions, then actually seeks to feel them again, even the negative ones. Its the wasy the brain is wired. The other issue is that because the bad times are so bad, the good times seem great. An example from one of my clients: Her boyfriend is bi-polar. On a bad day, he will say things that he knows will upset her, suggesting that he's having sex w/other people, etc. She will be devestated for a day or two, then he will turn into the nice guy. He will make a simple gesture like bringing home something she likes from the grocaery store, or making her breakfast. After the way he treated her the day before, this gesture seems like a grand one, amazingly thoughtful and generous. In this type of relationship, you are being trained to be happy with crumbs. Over time, you lose your self respect, and his respect for you and your standards are lowered. We need to get off the rollercoaster and the only way is to get lots of therapy and/or to just leave and avoid interaction w/the person, in my opinion, for 6 months or more. If you're required to talk fine, (about money, the kids, selling the house, etc) but no dates, no talking about feelings, no re-hashing the history of the relationship. You must think of the person as if he/she were an addictive substance. Ideally, after awhile, you can go back and be friends if you feel that the person would be better as a friend than he was as a marriage partner/lover. But you need to take care of yourself first by breaking the cycle. Regarding the married man you are in love with, his situation is difficult, but, like you, he's choosing it. When he's had enough he will leave. I know you want to be there for him, but there is some lesson he needs to learn from this situation. More than we are doers we are deciders. When you both decide you deserve a happy life, you will leave and start a new life (w/eachother or someone else if one of you cannot leave your current marriage) The cards suggest he will leave her, but time- frames are very difficult because time is relative/an illusion, and time-frames change all the time, based on our thoughts, actions and changing circumstances. The universe/God/your own higher self will open doors once you have made a firm decision. No one can do that for you. It will come from inside you. Life is short and God wants us to be happy. I hope you and John choose happiness soon. I am not a religious person, but I do believe in God and he hears my prayers for myself and others. I will create a prayer for you. Use it if you are interested/comfortable w/prayer. Father, Son Holy, Spirit please enter my life and my relationships. Speak to my heart and the hearts of my husband, my son, John and his wife. Influence and inspire us, transform us and guide us all to a life full of joy, abundance, good health and harmonious relationships. Guide us all to our highest good, in accordance w/divine will & divine timing, harming none. Thank you, Amen ** The key here is to place the details and timing into Gods hands, having faith that he will work things out in a way that everyone involved will be happy and that no one will get hurt. I wish you well. Call me if you need me, Aleta

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Chris Dufresne experience( Slyvia Browns son)

As a psychic, I receive emails and calls from people looking for an honest reading. They often find me after theyve had bad experiences w/other psychics. Below is my response to one of those emails. Sender will remain anonymous. Hi, I received your email through my website regarding your experience w/Chris Dusfresne, Silvia Browns son. People have been coming to me for readings after having bad experiences such as yours. ( I guess they like my reviews?) They're saying he treated them insensitively, rushed through the reading and gave them very general information. It seems to me he is over-working himself and possibly not cleansing his energy field often enough, which is making him impatient and irritable. This is only my opinion based on what Im hearing. People are also very unhappy about his fee (and Sylvia's- $850 !) I dont see why seeing/feeling the presence of your mom would mean you need a shrink, especially coming from him. His mom is a medium so i guess she needs a shrink too?! Did you say anything else that he could interpret as "crazy"? Maybe he thinks talking to God himself is nuts. I dont. I know some very sane people who can speak directly to God. One who comes to mind has been an intellectual and studying physics, etc her whole life. You would never know she was talking to God if you met her and her collegues wouldnt understand I'm sure. But she is quite sane. The advice i give is- if the info is loving, gentle, simple and empowering, its from God or some other positive entity. Truth is truth and most of us can FEEL it when we hear it. (It almost doesnt matter what the exact source is, as long as you can discern truth.) If the info you are getting is confusing, complex, scary or telling you to harm someone or yourself, its NOT coming from a good place. It sounds like you know the difference, but to be safe, I would suggest that you invoke Archangel Michael (google it) in the morning and before bed, since you're open to spirit, to make sure you're protected from any "negative" energies, entities. He protects me and my clients every day. My invocation, in my own words is- "Archangel Michael, i invoke u in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. I ask for your protection from all harm, danger and deception for me my cats, all beings on my property, including all birds and animals, all spirit beings and ancestors around me, my home, car and property throughout all time place and dimension. Do the same for everyone I read for today and tonight, wherever they call me from. So be it and so it is." (meaning, I have asked and i trust that is is done) Whenever invoking an angel, always say "in the name of the father son holy spirit " because this ensures that its is the right angel, not a fallen angel or demon "imposter". And remember, we dont pray to angels or worship them, we call or invoke them; God created them to serve mankind. They stand by, ready to serve, until we ask. God bless you and your mom. I believe you that shes there and I'm happy for you both. My mom is an awesome medium. I grew up with this stuff, so i know its real. Enjoy your connection w/your mom. But remember, my favorite saying "Dont throw pearls before swine" (Dont share your most beautiful spiritual experiences- or your dreams and goals for that matter- with anyone until you're sure they will be positive, supportive and HAPPY for you." I believe that, as multi-dimensional beings, we can be in heaven AND visiting our relatives AND reincarnated, living another life all at the same time. I believe in parallel universes and i am aware of one of my own parallel lives. None of this is nuts. Physics is now showing that its real. Scientists are finally catching up w/the mystics, who've known all along. Just dont get forget the "reality" of the life you are living and dont let yr relationship w/the living be over shadowed by yr relationship w/mom. We live in the physical world and must pay attention to the needs of the physical body, pay the bills and keep our feet on the ground. I wish you well and I'm here if you ever need a reading or a compassionate ear. Peace and blessings to you, Aleta