Monday, January 20, 2014

Ending a relationship- lover or friend

  Well,  the last few weeks have been very intense for most of us.  There were major astrological influences such as full moon, super moon, a cardinal cross (see astrology sites for more on these) around Christmas, New years and beyond. Many of us were having "drama" in relationships, or re-evaluating them. I was very busy w/calls for readings on this topic.
  I personally had to let go of a friend. She was not very conscious of her childhood issues which tended to "come out" around food, parties and holidays. When confronted on this, she denied it. It was too painful for her to see how little progress had been made regarding these issues.
  Do you have a person in your life who "acts crazy"/ lashes out inappropriately and doesn't acknowledge that there's a problem? If he/she is unconscious/unwilling to take responsibility and attempt to make changes in their behavior, it may be time to walk away. Its sometimes hard to, as we may want to help the person, but first they would need to be able to see that there IS a problem.
  Meanwhile, if their neurosis, moodiness, or whatever you want to call it, is acted out on you in a destructive manner (verbal abusive, psychological abuse/game-playing or worse), you need to go. They need professional help and you are not qualified nor obligated to stay and be abused.
 Tell them what you see/what they're doing in a gentle, non-blaming way, and encourage them to get help.
Walk away, then pray for them, as I continue to pray for my friend.

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